Hi, my name is Debby Herbenick. I like friends, family, flowers, leaves, beaches, warm weather, gardening and the smell of morning. I plant bulbs and dream about them coming up in the spring. I write about sex at www.MySexProfessor.com Here I write mostly about things that are not so overtly about sex.Tumblr (3.0; @debbyherbenick)http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/2133b00b3d2bc1b7ffb975a6b692b32a/tumblr_mm5j1bGgsT1rttmlgo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/49770268886http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/49770268886Mon, 06 May 2013 08:30:09 -0400<iframe width="400" height="225" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/CE3tL9MMk3U?wmode=transparent&autohide=1&egm=0&hd=1&iv_load_policy=3&modestbranding=1&rel=0&showinfo=0&showsearch=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><br/><br/><p>Here is the talk I gave about “Make Sex Normal” for TEDx Bloomington in March 2013. </p> <p>- Debby</p>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/49685972828http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/49685972828Sun, 05 May 2013 10:10:50 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/336c81e49ff7e9dd25e65229a17a8a8f/tumblr_mltrdafrg81qced37o1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://theparisreview.tumblr.com/post/48867744219/so-we-wait-out-storms-sometimes-to-be-reminded-of">theparisreview</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>“So we wait out storms sometimes to be reminded of their power to isolate, though there is always another side. After that summer night, no storm in or out of nature ever threatened me as much, because Sibbhon’s dismissal of me was also a recognition of my tenacity, or foolhardiness—the nature of one willing to strike through upheaval for the other side, knowing now that there is another side and knowing, too, what is waiting there: always another survivor.”</p> <p>—<a href="http://www.theparisreview.org/back-issues/114">Larry Woiwode, from “Summer Storms”</a><br/><em><small>Art Credit <a href="http://vk.com/sigmar_polke">Sigmar Polke</a></small></em></p> </blockquote>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/48878823526http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/48878823526Thu, 25 Apr 2013 17:36:48 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/9b40754019b0bb097cea77d21e4a2d25/tumblr_ml2cjfBrTa1r60o9go1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/47716487661http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/47716487661Thu, 11 Apr 2013 15:03:27 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/e5d47c1719a46fb28fce5af78ab3c70e/tumblr_mk4dwbSIqz1rse1ipo3_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/da775c67f8a3ac00a66b0545dbaba92f/tumblr_mk4dwbSIqz1rse1ipo2_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/8fcaf01f8df66cc55fdee7c131aef4d0/tumblr_mk4dwbSIqz1rse1ipo1_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://khooll.com/post/46076623636/treehouse-community-finca-bellavista-fbv-is-a">thekhooll</a>:</p> <blockquote> <h3><strong>Treehouse Community</strong></h3> <p><a href="http://www.fincabellavista.com/">Finca Bellavista</a><span> (FBV) is a sustainable treehouse community situated on 600 acres of land in the mountainous South Pacific coastal region of Costa Rica. FBV is the brainchild of Mateo and Erica Hogan, a married couple from Colorado who fell in love with Costa Rica.</span></p> </blockquote>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/46247235860http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/46247235860Mon, 25 Mar 2013 08:54:02 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/f1e5f448c40b5228cc33984c7294a1d6/tumblr_mhc62rxE4e1qzh0vno1_500.png"/><br/><br/>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/45834883537http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/45834883537Wed, 20 Mar 2013 10:12:13 -0400<a href="http://www.poetryfoundation.org/poetrymagazine/poem/242108">The Unfaithful Housewife</a>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/45188947270http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/45188947270Tue, 12 Mar 2013 10:10:29 -0400<a href="http://www.smithsonianmag.com/science-nature/Jane-Goodall-Reveals-Her-Lifelong-Fascination-With-Plants-192136911.html">Jane Goodall Digs Leaves</a>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/45188937001http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/45188937001Tue, 12 Mar 2013 10:10:12 -0400Always. Neruda.: Always I am not jealous of what came before me. Come with a manon your...http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/45188927706http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/45188927706Tue, 12 Mar 2013 10:09:56 -0400<a href="http://rookiemag.com/2013/03/all-in-your-head/">All in Your Head: Not Everything Is About You</a>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/45188899265http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/45188899265Tue, 12 Mar 2013 10:09:13 -0400<a href="http://www.poetryfoundation.org/poetrymagazine/poem/243632">An Attempt At Jealousy</a>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/45188886069http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/45188886069Tue, 12 Mar 2013 10:08:52 -0400<a href="http://www.poetryfoundation.org/poetrymagazine/poem/242882">The Way We Were Made</a>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/45188876124http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/45188876124Tue, 12 Mar 2013 10:08:35 -0400<a href="http://www.poetryfoundation.org/poem/245516">Are All the Break-Ups in Your Poems Real? </a>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/45188866388http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/45188866388Tue, 12 Mar 2013 10:08:19 -0400<a href="http://sourcefednews.com/artist-marina-abramovic-reunites-with-ulay/">Marina Abramovic & Ulay Reunite at The Artist is Present</a>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/45188839092http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/45188839092Tue, 12 Mar 2013 10:07:36 -0400<a href="http://amandapalmer.net/blog/20130307/">Amanda Palmer's It Takes a Village TED talk thanks</a>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/45188818265http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/45188818265Tue, 12 Mar 2013 10:07:02 -0400<a href="http://www.businessinsider.com/which-8-questions-can-determine-how-happy-and-successful-your-life-will-be-2013-3">Men & Happiness: Grant Study</a>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/45188799849http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/45188799849Tue, 12 Mar 2013 10:06:31 -0400“Regular maps have few surprises: their contour lines reveal where the Andes are, and are reasonably...http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/38347643978http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/38347643978Wed, 19 Dec 2012 20:33:00 -0500<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_me3ytwmdox1qz6f9yo1_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_me3ytwmdox1qz6f9yo2_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://thisisnthappiness.com/post/36602798387/world-map">nevver</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="http://www.oliverjeffers.com/paintings/world-map">World map</a></p> </blockquote>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/36620615453http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/36620615453Mon, 26 Nov 2012 18:06:30 -0500<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mbnw0vyOf21qzgg4xo1_500.png"/><br/><br/>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/36591833761http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/36591833761Mon, 26 Nov 2012 09:35:50 -0500<iframe src="http://player.vimeo.com/video/54239074?badge=0" width="400" height="227" frameborder="0"></iframe><br/><br/><p>I found this today on my computer - video I didn’t even know existed of me with Dr. Ruth doing a book signing in Chicago a couple of years ago. I had to strip the audio and replace with music because otherwise you could hear people giving/spelling their names, etc.</p> <p>Fun evening. </p>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/36528509386http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/36528509386Sun, 25 Nov 2012 14:20:03 -0500