Hi, my name is Debby Herbenick. I like friends, family, flowers, leaves, beaches, warm weather, gardening and the smell of morning. I plant bulbs and dream about them coming up in the spring. I write about sex at www.MySexProfessor.com Here I write mostly about things that are not so overtly about sex.Tumblr (3.0; @debbyherbenick)http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/<img src="http://18.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_krm0zeC1Yz1qz7yrho1_500.png"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://14.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_krm0zeC1Yz1qz7yrho2_500.png"/><br/> <br/><p>Love some of these home pages from <a href="http://www.toxel.com/design/2009/10/14/15-examples-of-modern-web-design/">15 Examples of Modern Web Design on Toxel. </a></p> <p>Maybe it’s time for a re-design? I’m in this period of wanting more creativity, more colors in my life, more explosions (the good happy kind, of course). Oh, and a sweet dog who will sit and cuddle with me, let me run my fingers in its coat, and go on long wistful walks under expansive evening skies. That can’t be too much to ask for, can it?</p>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/214683206http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/214683206Fri, 16 Oct 2009 09:47:38 -0400<img src="http://23.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_krhl3f4rKM1qz7yrho1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>Love my new red petticoat. Sometimes I don’t realize how small I am, though, until I see photographic evidence. I feel much bigger than I am (in a good, positive way - not a distorted self-image way).</p>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/212567742http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/212567742Wed, 14 Oct 2009 00:14:03 -0400<img src="http://17.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_krhkspfDyT1qz7yrho1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>Meet Jezebel. I love her but don’t think we have the right home or yard for her (sadly).</p>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/212562849http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/212562849Wed, 14 Oct 2009 00:07:37 -0400<object width="400" height="336"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/AiY_QxjsgN0&rel=0&egm=0&showinfo=0&fs=1"></param><param name="wmode" value="transparent"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/AiY_QxjsgN0&rel=0&egm=0&showinfo=0&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="400" height="336" allowFullScreen="true" wmode="transparent"></embed></object><br/><br/><p>I love when I wake up singing songs. This happy, wonderful song is from this morning’s wake-up.</p> <p>“It’s good to have you back again…” (sigh). How I adore love.</p>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/196584077http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/196584077Fri, 25 Sep 2009 08:48:12 -0400<img src="http://23.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kpwjnhaUMF1qz7yrho1_400.png"/><br/><br/>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/186794842http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/186794842Sun, 13 Sep 2009 04:59:41 -0400<img src="http://16.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kpwjn1xvay1qz7yrho1_500.png"/><br/><br/><p>I sort of love that FB defines “it’s complicated” in their Glossary but they won’t define marriage. Perhaps some governments can learn from FB.</p>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/186794774http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/186794774Sun, 13 Sep 2009 04:59:25 -0400<img src="http://17.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kpwjf5jRKO1qz7yrho1_500.png"/><br/><br/><p>I had to keep scrolling through the English (US) to English (UK) Glossary in order to find anything that was different. Thanks goodness FB is there to translate “college” into “university”.</p>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/186793027http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/186793027Sun, 13 Sep 2009 04:54:41 -0400<img src="http://14.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kpwjdjcdfZ1qz7yrho1_500.png"/><br/><br/><p>Translation tool not available for English (UK) at the moment, it seems. But wait… there’s more.</p>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/186792690http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/186792690Sun, 13 Sep 2009 04:53:43 -0400<img src="http://18.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kpwj651OjN1qz7yrho1_500.png"/><br/><br/><p>I arrived in Scotland this morning and, while waiting for my room to be ready, logged on to Facebook in the hotel lobby only to find that Facebook wants to know if (a) I speak English (UK) and (b) if I will participate in a translation project. Except I’m American. And, er, except for a few minor spellings and differences in word choice, the language is pretty much the same without a need to translate.</p> <p>Oh and please disregard the high # of unopened messages in my Inbox. This is why I prefer email or Twitter for messages.</p> <p>xo</p> <p>Debby</p>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/186790966http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/186790966Sun, 13 Sep 2009 04:49:17 -0400<object type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="400" height="300" data="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=6535178&server=vimeo.com&fullscreen=1&show_title=1&show_byline=0&show_portrait=0&color=00ADEF"><param name="quality" value="best" /><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /><param name="allowfullscreen" value="true" /><param name="scale" value="showAll" /><param name="movie" value="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=6535178&server=vimeo.com&fullscreen=1&show_title=1&show_byline=0&show_portrait=0&color=00ADEF" /><embed src="http://www.vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=6535178&server=www.vimeo.com&show_title=1&show_byline=0&show_portrait=0&color=00ADEF&fullscreen=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" width="400" height="300"></embed></object><br/><br/><p>I just got a new sex toy in the mail and, because I am going out of the country tomorrow for almost a week in order to attend a conference, I didn’t have time to film and edit a more sophisticated video about this vibrator. However, I wanted to tell you all about it ASAP because I think the Fairy Mini Wand vibrator is terrific. It’s easy to clean, has multiple speeds (from very mild to very intense) and uses standard AA batteries (six of them).</p> <p>As you can see, I normally don’t look like I do on the cover of my book or when I appear on TV. I’m not a fan of a lot of make up in my day to day life though I am a fan of quality sexual enhancement products and this is certainly one of them. Learn more about it on MyPleasure.com:</p> <p><a href="http://www.mypleasure.com/Sex-Toy-Fairy-Mini-Wand-Collection.asp?dept_id=403?cat=SearchCat">http://www.mypleasure.com/Sex-Toy-Fairy-Mini-Wand-Collection.asp?dept_id=403?cat=SearchCat</a></p>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/185506231http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/185506231Fri, 11 Sep 2009 15:27:32 -0400The other day I wrote about feelings of discovery, a post I enjoyed writing and - even after it went...http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/184582513http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/184582513Thu, 10 Sep 2009 12:00:40 -0400…after looking at some Fall dresses online the past few days, I can’t help but think of...http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/184565525http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/184565525Thu, 10 Sep 2009 11:29:36 -0400<img src="http://10.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kprhlxfQJV1qz7yrho1_400.png"/><br/><br/><p>I love Fall dresses and skirts. And tights. As much as I love my summer dresses, and warm weather, there’s something nice about a brisk Fall walk. And this Fall, I’ll get to find out what it’s like to bike to campus in the brisk Fall breeze. Hmmm….</p>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/184564464http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/184564464Thu, 10 Sep 2009 11:27:33 -0400Love Story: Even though I am probably not exactly in her target demo (or am I?), min 2:45 to about...http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/184563245http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/184563245Thu, 10 Sep 2009 11:24:59 -0400<img src="http://5.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kprda2dvTb1qz6f9xo1_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://23.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kprda2dvTb1qz6f9xo2_r1_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://11.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kprda2dvTb1qz6f9xo3_r1_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><p><a href="http://mynylife.tumblr.com/post/184516342/blue-or-purple-or-blue-and-purple-things-i-saw">mynylife</a>:</p> <blockquote>Blue, or purple, or blue-and-purple things I saw on my morning walk.</blockquote> <p>pretty. love the hydrangeas in particular (mine are no longer purple this late in the season!)</p>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/184562501http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/184562501Thu, 10 Sep 2009 11:23:39 -0400Check out my recent post on sex and love after heartbreak and loss. This one was a difficult and...http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/182470132http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/182470132Mon, 07 Sep 2009 22:21:04 -0400<object width="400" height="336"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/xDr_gB6RryQ&rel=0&egm=0&showinfo=0&fs=1"></param><param name="wmode" value="transparent"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/xDr_gB6RryQ&rel=0&egm=0&showinfo=0&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="400" height="336" allowFullScreen="true" wmode="transparent"></embed></object><br/><br/><p>I keep singing this song. I love it.</p>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/182463421http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/182463421Mon, 07 Sep 2009 22:12:12 -0400Check out my new blog post about using sexual fantasies to increase desire. It doesn’t matter...http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/176729628http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/176729628Mon, 31 Aug 2009 22:04:52 -0400<a href="http://politicalticker.blogs.cnn.com/2009/08/29/obama-former-presidents-honor-kennedy/">Strange bedfellows</a>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/174832439http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/174832439Sat, 29 Aug 2009 14:02:19 -0400<img src="http://11.media.tumblr.com/2m8BXUfriq8ksbhiuy04i8sPo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p><a href="http://thisisnthappiness.com/post/147315860/we-were-suppose-to-go-to-mars-project-empire">nevver</a>:</p> <blockquote>We were <i>suppose</i> to go to Mars, <a href="http://home.flash.net/~aajiv/bd/colliers.html">Project Empire, 1952</a> </blockquote>http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/147507657http://debbyherbenick.tumblr.com/post/147507657Thu, 23 Jul 2009 08:51:31 -0400