November 2011
1 post
Where can I get a good Italian dinner in Miami,...
Try Bugatti restaurant in Coral Gables. Fresh sauces. Home made pastas. And the salads have toasted pine nuts in them. Arrive hungry, leave happy.
Also check out The Big Tomato. It’s a tradition.
June 2010
1 post
Times have changed.
I haven’t used my Tumblr in ages but now, looking back, I’m surprised at how much life has changed since I last posted in the Fall.
The dog I worried about not having enough space or energy for? We adopted her days later and she is one of the best decisions I’ve ever been a part of. Little Jezebel is my heart and my wonderment.
Other things have changed, too: I’ve...
October 2009
3 posts
September 2009
14 posts
WatchI just got a new sex toy in the mail and, because I am going out of the country tomorrow for almost a week in order to attend a conference, I didn’t have time to film and edit a more sophisticated video about this vibrator. However, I wanted to tell you all about it ASAP because I think the Fairy Mini Wand vibrator is terrific. It’s easy to clean, has multiple speeds (from very mild to...
Discovering Love
The other day I wrote about feelings of discovery, a post I enjoyed writing and - even after it went live - thinking about. It’s something I keep thinking about maybe because we’re on the cusp of a seasonal change, only a week+ away from turning into Fall and all that entails.
I’ve been thinking about what it felt like to start school in what felt like the Fall - my first...
Thinking of New Hampshire...
…after looking at some Fall dresses online the past few days, I can’t help but think of being in New Hampshire in the Fall, getting ready to start my senior year of high school and wondering what lay in store. How did I ever think that 17 was “old”?
Love Story →
Even though I am probably not exactly in her target demo (or am I?), min 2:45 to about 3:00 get me every time.
Heartbreak, loss, grief and sex
Check out my recent post on sex and love after heartbreak and loss. This one was a difficult and very personal one for me to write, but it was one of those that simply had to be written. It stemmed from a dinner I had several weeks ago with a woman who had recently lost her mother. Though I barely knew her, our conversation took the kind of turn that conversations only take when you’ve been...
Sexual fantasies can be fun
Check out my new blog post about using sexual fantasies to increase desire. It doesn’t matter whether it’s just you or whether you have a partner. See how fantasies might perk up your imagination a bit or help you get into the mood.
[MySexProfessor]
August 2009
2 posts
Strange bedfellows →
July 2009
2 posts
WatchMy first (and so far only) time hang gliding.
June 2009
2 posts
“It Will Not Change” It will not change now After so many years; Life has not broken it With parting or tears; Death will not alter it, It will live on In all my songs for you When I am gone. Sarah Teasdale
May 2009
1 post
April 2009
4 posts
“It’s never going to be over, so stop waiting for the good stuff. As of now,...”
– David Deida, from The Way of the Superior Man. You can laugh at the title but the book is phenomenal. (via jakelodwick)
oh. wow. i think i need to go garden now.
March 2009
2 posts
February 2009
2 posts
My students' videos about sex →
Last semester, my uber-talented students created videos about various sexuality topics. Several of them posted theirs on YouTube for all to see. Enjoy!
December 2008
3 posts
Zakhar Sasim, an artist whose work I newly love →
Not long ago we saw this artist and his work at Eastern Market in DC and I was recently gifted with one of my two favorite paintings of his - one of the cherry blossoms in full bloom along the mall (unfortunately, not pictured on ZS’s web site). My other favorite is the one of Union Station on his home page.
Watchthenormatist:
One take, live performance, 35mm film.
The first music video from Francis and the Lights.
Technical details here.
Stream all songs at aModernPromise.com.
My, my, my. Where can I see this live?
September 2008
1 post
WatchThis is me (on the right) bodysurfing in India. It was one of the most fun things I have ever done.
July 2008
4 posts
“We only regard those unions as real examples of love and real marriages in which...”
– Alfred Adler
June 2008
1 post
“Education is the ability to listen to almost anything without losing your temper...”
– Robert Frost
May 2008
5 posts
WatchWatch it.
April 2008
2 posts
Are you a Windows user?
jakoblodwick: It seems like most Tumblr users are Mac people. But there must be some PC/Windows Tumblrs out there. If you are a Windows user, can you explain why in a reblog? If you are a former Windows user, like me, you can still participate. Just reblog why you used a PC before you switched. In my case, I thought PCs were the real deal, while Macs were slow and for posers. Two years ago, the...