Debby Herbenick

Hi, my name is Debby Herbenick.

I like friends, family, flowers, leaves, beaches, warm weather, gardening and the smell of morning. I plant bulbs and dream about them coming up in the spring.

I write about sex at www.MySexProfessor.com

Here I write mostly about things that are not so overtly about sex.

Where can I get a good Italian dinner in Miami, Florida?

Try Bugatti restaurant in Coral Gables. Fresh sauces. Home made pastas. And the salads have toasted pine nuts in them. Arrive hungry, leave happy. 

Also check out The Big Tomato. It’s a tradition. 

Times have changed.

I haven’t used my Tumblr in ages but now, looking back, I’m surprised at how much life has changed since I last posted in the Fall. 

The dog I worried about not having enough space or energy for? We adopted her days later and she is one of the best decisions I’ve ever been a part of. Little Jezebel is my heart and my wonderment. 

Other things have changed, too: I’ve signed a contract for a second book (it’s about vaginas and vulvas and I’m writing it with a friend/colleague), there was a huge rainbow in my town that everyone but me seemed to see one day, I’m out there swimming and rollerskating and bellydancing, and I’ve made new friends and watched a good friend move away. 

There are precious, wonderful moments of lovely and tough moments, too, but such is the pattern of life. I hope you are enjoying yours, whoever and wherever you are. 

Love some of these home pages from 15 Examples of Modern Web Design on Toxel.

Maybe it’s time for a re-design? I’m in this period of wanting more creativity, more colors in my life, more explosions (the good happy kind, of course). Oh, and a sweet dog who will sit and cuddle with me, let me run my fingers in its coat, and go on long wistful walks under expansive evening skies. That can’t be too much to ask for, can it?

Love my new red petticoat. Sometimes I don’t realize how small I am, though, until I see photographic evidence. I feel much bigger than I am (in a good, positive way - not a distorted self-image way).

Love my new red petticoat. Sometimes I don’t realize how small I am, though, until I see photographic evidence. I feel much bigger than I am (in a good, positive way - not a distorted self-image way).

Meet Jezebel. I love her but don’t think we have the right home or yard for her (sadly).

Meet Jezebel. I love her but don’t think we have the right home or yard for her (sadly).

I love when I wake up singing songs. This happy, wonderful song is from this morning’s wake-up.

“It’s good to have you back again…” (sigh). How I adore love.

I sort of love that FB defines “it’s complicated” in their Glossary but they won’t define marriage. Perhaps some governments can learn from FB.

I sort of love that FB defines “it’s complicated” in their Glossary but they won’t define marriage. Perhaps some governments can learn from FB.

I had to keep scrolling through the English (US) to English (UK) Glossary in order to find anything that was different. Thanks goodness FB is there to translate “college” into “university”.

I had to keep scrolling through the English (US) to English (UK) Glossary in order to find anything that was different. Thanks goodness FB is there to translate “college” into “university”.

Translation tool not available for English (UK) at the moment, it seems. But wait… there’s more.

Translation tool not available for English (UK) at the moment, it seems. But wait… there’s more.